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DandR4hands4men 54M/54M
517 posts
5/15/2019 2:21 pm
Fudge Packing with this Sexual Chocolate!!!

Well, I pride myself on being a slightly perverted, kind of kinky, somewhat freaky gentleman who is an extreme hopeless romantic who values sensuality, intimacy and eroticism and uses creativity and imagination as often as I can in my love or sex life. This, I believe, with my zest for life and adventurous nature, makes for an awesome combination that has enabled me to be in the industry in one way, shape form or fashion for over 35 years.

In that time, I have been with hundreds of men. Probably upwards of a thousand, if I count the ones I've forgotten, try to forget, or don't come to me right away. One of the reasons I opted to travel down this lane when it looked like someone was going to continue to give me hell about my original blog content. But I digress. I figured that this will give me the opportunity to recall some of the guys and events I don't think of very often.

Although I consider myself to be versatile, 80% of the time I find myself being a top. I'm not sure if it is because I'm a lick it before I stick it kind of guy, or if it is the width, or the length, or the curve, but whatever it is, I top way more than I bottom. In fact, sometimes I go so long between enterings, I find myself itching for that scratch! lol


I remember Frisco, an actor buddy of mine. We would get drunk and make out at the bar. I would make sure he got home, which eventually led to us playing. Normally, we would make out some more, I would eat him ass out, lick his taint some, make my way to his balls, work them good and get a load or two in my mouth before he'd pass out on me. This one occasion though, he decided he really wanted to play. He was sucking my cock, but I knew he would never get it done. We were on the bed at the time, and he had me go to the edge of the bed and balance myself on my upper back and shoulders with my ass in the air, so he could stand on the floor and rim me. Despite the work that was involved on my part, I actually enjoyed it. Much more so than when he decided to stand on the bed and try to fuck me. Now like Snickers, he looked like he might be satisfying, but I really could have had a V-8. And when the noises I had been making when he was rimming me ceased, he realized he wasn't getting the job done that way either. So we went back to our norm.

Now, as a bottom, you kind of know what is going to work for you. You should know where your spot or spots are, what's too thick or wide, what's too long, should he take his Prince Albert out, etc. Power bottoms tend to want to be pounded like a tenderloin before you fry it. Other bottoms like it slower and smooth, to get in the groove. The best of us slowly work ourselves into a frenzy and then go wild. In my world, I let the driver take a break, and I literally control the ride, working his stick so it shifts in the way and tempo I need it to go, and when he starts to fill up the tank, I cum along for the ride!


I'm not a huge fan of the lesser endowed traveling in the back with me. I actually have two spots, and a lot of junk in the trunk! So they may be able to reach the easiest one, but it is the furthest one that has a slow, numbing effect on my tunnel of love. In other word, the thin line between pleasure in pain is somewhere along the way they rarely get to.

I remember the last lesser endowed guy to go down there like that. He was pretty thick but small. So small in fact, I enjoyed him eating my ass out far more than him trying to fuck me. I actually wasn't sure ever made it in with his dick. Thank goodness, we were interrupted. I had another one coming in from out of town every week to get his ass ate, his dick sucked and then cum in my bum. Such a shame too, because he had a hot ass I would have loved to have tagged once. More unfortunate, as he only managed to tickle my sphincter before he popped and dropped.


I did get two surprises that came literally in small packages. And I am thoroughly convinced that having a connection with the guys you play with makes for better or hotter sex. Jeffery was a hot little sexy number who use to meet me at my favorite bar. And yes, we could have manage to get some play in there, but there was always a chance that he husband might pop in. In fact, I think because his husband would only top him is why he was looking for someone he could top. He was actually approaching average, and was thin. By the time we started kicking it, I was attracted to him emotionally as well has physically. His kisses and working my nipples drove me crazy, and I remember dragging him into to restroom, stripping him, placing him on the toilet, straddling him, riding his cock and rocking his world.That was the first of many even better times with him.

I think I regard the other lesser endowed guy as the greatest top I've ever had. But in fairness, we had six years of friendship, all that sexual tension and build-up, it just turned into a passionate seven year...yes, I'm going to say it, love affair! I had met his and his husband, but I knew what was going on between them. But eventually I was asked to help do something at the house, which turned out to be a ruse on his part. Normally, i make sure they have thought about what they were doing, but this time, I just thought it would be one time...no one would have to know. Settle my curiosities. See what I'm missing out on. Seven years later, we were still going at it, and he said, that relationship was still going because I was giving him everything he needed to stay there. Only when they moved did we have to reduce ourselves to . I know we love each other, but I think the big thing with us was we had no boundaries. I gave him sexually everything he wasn't getting at home. We were both versatile, and very freaky. Playing out doors, at the hardware store, sexual acrobatics. We were really connected. So even thoroughly he was smaller endowed, he was also extremely talented, and our immense connection just put us over the top!


I like a good oral challenge, but I'm not really interested in something stretching me beyond recognition in the back. I did that once, years ago, for love, with my first husband....still the largest cock I've ever seen in my life. Puts a damper on that black guys have the biggest ones, huh? Though in fairness, I believe that to be averages, because the next three on my list would be slabs of dark meat. Anyway, during our courting and first year of marriage, I was the top, but we were more romantic and oral than anything else. On our first wedding anniversary, I bought him a gift, and he seemed disappointed. This is when he shared with me his interest in topping me. I agreed, if he gave me six months to prepare. When the time came, it was horrible! Screaming, crying, punctuated by the fact that there were witnesses, as we went to the park as to not disturb our neighbors. Just awful. The things we do for love, huh? So double digits is fine, if it is pencil thin. Otherwise, literally, back off! lol

Sawyer feels good when he he goes there, but that is a special treat, as he is addickted to my cock-sucking, but that's about all that is going on for me anally right now. Though I do remember one universal birthday present I received years ago.


I had left my first job in retail management and headed for my second job, working in a gay bar. It was my birthday, so I figured I would see a few friends and have a few drinks without having to pay for it. But 3:30 am and I was single, alone, tipsy and headed for my empty apartment to sleep alone on my birthday. and honestly, I was bitching at the universe about it. It heard me, and about five blocks from home...I was walking...a thin, but gorgeous creature offered to drive me home. I hopped in, to learn that we were going to his home, not mine. And alone the way, it came up that it was my birthday. Let's just say, I felt again! I got off five times that night, and he got off eight. Nothing was off limits so he fucked me and I fucked him. He sucked me and I sucked him. We kissed and rimmed and ate food off of each other. And in my head now, along with being one of the most talented individuals I've ever had the pleasure of spending time with, his cock is like the measuring stick I use when debating random cock in my ass. He was fucking awesome! He was incredible! He was unforgettable!

And that is it for my anal exercises as a bottom. Now, some of these guys you will read about again. Like the last one, a soon post will be about my one night stands, and of course, he will be there. Just the nature of how the blog works now. You still have a few pictures so we can still pick a dick or favorite! You will probably really learn more about me than you ever wanted to know, but some lucky guy may think I'm the bomb, now that they will slowly learn how I roll. A perhaps a few others will consider becoming friends with benefits with me! lol

One last thing...If you find yourself reading my blog and think I may be talking about you, hit a brother up. We can get reacquainted over drinks and a rubdown!


bjhogan 66M
1950 posts
5/21/2019 5:16 am

well said darling !


DandR4hands4men replies on 5/27/2019 11:06 am:
Well, thank you very much!

OralXzam 44M
44 posts
5/21/2019 8:16 pm

I won't lie...I miss the sessions! But this was a fun read, and I get a better sense of your sense of humor. I will need a few more posts to be sure, but I think I could continue to read this. Oh, and I pick #6!


DandR4hands4men replies on 5/27/2019 11:08 am:
Thank you very much! Honestly, I miss reliving my sessions as well, but if it is that much of a problem, I have other things to write about. Hang in there, and let me know what you think!

interraciallove7 54M
102 posts
5/22/2019 1:36 pm

I wanted to thank you for giving me a new idea for a poem I hope to post in the next week! Couldn't have done it with your inspiration!


DandR4hands4men replies on 5/27/2019 11:09 am:
Thank you. I look forward to reading it!

interraciallove7 54M
102 posts
5/22/2019 1:36 pm

I will take number four!


DandR4hands4men replies on 5/27/2019 11:10 am:
Thank you for remembering to vote! lol

Mandrogyny 52T
45 posts
5/23/2019 12:17 am

Number 2, but why is number one so small?

Gyny


DandR4hands4men replies on 5/27/2019 11:11 am:
I'm not sure. He looks like smile, dick, balls and chest hair...what are we complaining about? lol Thank you for voting!

adickted18 47M
255 posts
5/23/2019 4:51 am

Oh yes I'll take them all!! But number 4 mmmm. I love a semi hard cock like his. He looks like a freak to. The kind that would pound me into temporary paralysis!


DandR4hands4men replies on 5/27/2019 11:13 am:
Thank you very much. Four does seem to have a freak-like aura about him!

DandR4hands4men 54M/54M
946 posts
5/27/2019 11:13 am

And it looks like you'alls winner was Four, but I was rooting for 2 or 5!


bjhogan 66M
1950 posts
6/5/2019 12:43 pm

damn ! that was sooooo hot ! i just lovvvvvvve reading your blogs and pics of well hung men ! when i FIRST STARTED having GAAAY SEXX/LOVE in 94 after my 1 st DIVORCE !! i discovered how intense man love is cumpared to women ! and while i prefer to be the bottom bitch ! i will top a hot ass ! being a size Queeeen ! i do prefer a big ! cock over a small one ! i lovvvvvve that soreness the next day and still feeling his thick load in me ! MEN are INSATIABLE !! & since we SHARE the SAME PLUMBING !! we know how to pleasure a man in ways no woman can ! i've had my share of women in the past ! but i learned hot spots i never knew exxxcisted over the years ! some examples being NIPPLE PLAY & RIMMMMING !! my god ! what intense pleasure ! there's also something to be said about chemistry and getting to know some one ! which made my time with BARKLEY so special !! we grew up in the same town ! even tho it would years later after my 2nd divorce in 08 before we finaly hooked up ! he was the FIRST MAN I DATED ! & WAS OPEN ABOUT MY HOMOSEXUALITY !! we could talk about anything ! before and after sex ! and we were both physicaly atracted to each other ! with similar builds ! and cock size ! but i knew going in i was just his boi toy as he has a life partner in new mex. going on 30 years ! but none the less , sex was always hot and intense ! and we still remain good friends and go out occasionaly ! i was his bottom and he was my top ! we 69ed ! swapped cum kisses ! and damn he lovvvvvvvvvvved eating my pussy !


DandR4hands4men replies on 6/6/2019 12:37 pm:
Thank you for continuing to read my blog, despite the changes. Glad you are still enjoying it, as I enjoy receiving your responses and attention. Thank you for being a fan!