secondly we cant rush because rushing doesnt help. Rushing just causes trouble. I'd rather set this up and have a start date of maybe march next year. You'd get an application form and you send it.

You spend the next 3 months in sexual abstinence and you en devour if you are an IV user to wash your needles and even better, not come along or use a different ROA. You are tested in your application. If 3 months sexual abstinence maybe you should be attending because i want member with dedication to ethics and their own sexual health.

Condoms in any sexual usage (like with your wives are a must) but exopecting them to be brought along as "no problem" is not acceptable. they have their role but you have to have some qualities - dedication to the group, the ability to not need to be sex maniacs in your 3 month abstinence and a whole range of other personal values instead of a couple of condoms and "i forgot my papers" atittude. -

I want this group to be a group of people with ethical standards. People you think are trusty worthy, take pride in their honesty towards themselves and others in regards to the transmission of STD.s Condoms will be provided but really i consider whipping out condoms as the only solution as a tragedy of human lameness.

How about we make some application forms and have a tight knit, hard to Get into type membership. no mates/visitors coming in and please men only. I see women steal enough cock and besides im envious of how easy they could set up orgies if they wanted and and if i take a riole in this they willbe denied at the application stage.

another great secret test- you are to committ 3 months before the date youwill be required to provide a thoughrouigh STD test (the whokle run) for each month during that unknown stage of STD transmission. The second part is you remeber your personal integrity and you wait the extra 3 months - a comphrehensive test each month. you are to provide 6 doctors certificates for this peroid and bring them.. if thats too long to not be barebacked you are not permitted. if you forgot to bring the certificates back you get them within 30 minutes or you have had it. you are not permitted unless you got a good excuse.

We have a agreementtogether -liek a code that we can always be honest about things. Some people may consider all that waiting a loss of your live. Feel free to express your concerns. Maybe all you have to do is let us help you come up with a way that provies youa quicky at the beach but a banning from being able to attend. This is called the girft of openiness and communication.

the sucess also depends on a help of socialigical factors such as squabbling and some of us may help by learning and teach these people some conflict resolution skills. if they dont follow they are banned.

Next is the hardest. I wont have any issues with this but can you trust other people? perhaps a look at his relationship with his wife and his regular bareback session behind her back is a good indicator. The saddest thing is the poor soul cant even committ to values himself.

other mebers mnay be evaulated by seeing if their years oprevious std tests are provided or if they never had hem. If you dont get an std test you wont be worthy.

show them the list - the ones that reaelin horror are banned. But it will be a good and valuabke optunity to look at your friends in the community - do they regard character values and intergrity instead of the attrocious notion of telling a man his HIV he's only told them after he's come in them. LAways keep an eye on these people and keep an eye on the way they rush their dicks at unsuspecting members. Sometimkes i wonder if some peoople even careif they have std's. So its a good time to look at your friends and see how they feel or act. Your close friends may be a better change of getting in.

Seems like allot of work doesnt it but the real reason i feel is becauise nobody gives a shit about they personal values.

tghere will always be condoms provided. methods may be employed to make sure no mistakes are made.

Now its open for options... I respect the notion of its impossibilty because i feel like im the only person with a shred of resopect for myself and caring for i others - if you think you desrve that title then you can be alot more trusted them they "what the fuck is this? attitudes which are banned.

Bigger groups cause more risks and its about integrity and trust. if you think a smaller group maybe better managable this could work. If lie detectors were infallible i'd have them there.

also people will need pamplets because some people dont read much about drugs.

Take a looad at yourself right now. Do you want an STD? How would you feel about telling a sub "oh by the way im HIV" right after you blow in them.

Have you got any ideas to improve the wy with canvastly elimniate risks of std transmission. Should we consider this a project that doesnt open net week but opens in a time frame later doown the track. Consider yourself ok to put yourself in the group list. Feel free to discuss issues that may prevemnt you from remaining in this list.

Its ok to say this a terrible idea but we must look at teh current way it runs and see the shortcommings it provbides.

perhjaps eventually we can togther provide a framework that lets us create a way of creating safer conditions. Belive me in the current state the alternative provides where poeple give vocal assurances "im clean" is not going to cut it if he walks out with 3 different STD infections.

Yeah i wanna join a good group and yes i wanna get a good gangbanging bareback. God help us if we cant trust ourselves. things have to be imporved.. any suggestions or issues with my first draft.