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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Gay Love.
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Myass99 62 M
1  question
3some - 4/6/2011

I'm hoping to have my first 3some soon (I'm a total bottom). Any thoughts about the best position to be in to give head and get fucked at the same time?

8 response(s), 17 votes
need2meet 68 M
1  question
underwear - 4/5/2011

Guys is it just me or are there any other guys that like to wear sexy looking undies? In fact I have almost given up wearing the white cotton jockeys that everyone seems to think all guys wear. Do you wear anything different from standard jockeys or boxers?

8 response(s), 12 votes
lowsacs 78 M
3  questions
Prostate Stimulation - 4/2/2011

I am after that elusive "Ultimate Orgasim". From what I've read but never experienced. The prostate can and probably is a very sensitive part of the body and orgasims can be achieved by a partner or mechanically. I want to experiance that sensation so I guess my question is-- what's better, mechanical or by a partner . I'd appreciate any and all info you can provide. TY

8 response(s), 11 votes
831228 39 M
2  questions
Lonely sex - 3/30/2011

Hi, everyone. I'm just found out i'm gay recently. I'm eagerly want to have sex with a male partner. Since I don't have one, I'm started masturbation alone to get sexual satisfaction. However, masturbation cannot fulfill my sexual satisfaction. What I'm I going to do? Maybe anyone can suggest their favorite masturbation techniques? or anyone that are also eagerly want to have sex, may ...

9 response(s), 16 votes
hornyniteowl 44 M
1  question
Just Wondering - 3/20/2011

As pleasurable as my dildo may be as I fuck myself daily, why is it so damn hard to find a man willing to replace my dildo for a night of great sex??

0 response(s), 11 votes
hoover494 39 M
1  question
how do I find out my co-worker might be bi - 3/19/2011

my co worker is starting to talk about sex and jacking off and other sexual stuff to me. The other day he asked if I have ever ben in a circle jerk with other guys. I was wondering are there any clues I should look for to see if he might be giving me signals that I might be overlooking. I would have sex with him in a heartbeat but I don't know for sure what his sexual preference would be. ...

9 response(s), 9 votes
ohyeah1952 72 M
2  questions
Bisexual and unmarried - 3/19/2011

Ok, I read on another question that people think married men should either leave their wives or not go with men. I agree with this by the way. My question is if you know you like both and are not married should you let the women know that you have sex with men? Most men I've met could care less as long as you put out for them.

1 response(s), 12 votes
ohyeah1952 72 M
2  questions
Can you change your user name after you have been on here awhile? - 3/17/2011

Just noticed that alot of user names state that they want to try men or they are new to this life style and then when you talk with them they have done it all many time over. So how hard is it to change user names or can you?

2 response(s), 5 votes
Erin59 64 T
2  questions
Not a question but - 3/14/2011

There is a kind of new group Live From OutPersonals. The guy from Site support, Ryan, checks it every week for questions or issues that we have. It seems better than the site support blog because your post is open for discussion instead of hidden waiting to be approved.

3 response(s), 8 votes
cockcentric 62 M
6  questions
married man rimming? - 3/13/2011

You rim or like to be rimmed?

5 response(s), 14 votes
Erin59 64 T
2  questions
Safe sex - 3/12/2011

There have been a few questions about the consequences of unsafe sex lately. I even read a remark by someone who said he doesn't know how a male can get VD. We must be losing ground against all the STD's out there. Please educate yourself. Don't get it and if you do get it don't give it. How have we become so under informed about STD's in this new age of communication?

20 response(s), 24 votes
bottomsup1313 63 M
3  questions
Northwest Arkansas pick up spots - 3/12/2011

Ok all you guys in Northwest Arkansas where are the cruising hot spots at, Lake Fayetteville use to be a hot spot, but it's not anymore!

Help me out here!



How do I find out local gay hang out spots?

2 response(s), 10 votes
studdman44 57 M
16  questions
nudist - 3/12/2011

I was wondering if anybody out there knows where the closest nudist resort is from Arkansas if anyone knows please let me know thank you s.m.

0 response(s), 16 votes
anal_virgin69 32 M
5  questions
So Guys.... - 3/11/2011

What should I do? I have been dating my BF for the last 6 months. I love and cherish his company but I hate his sexuality. When were fooling around, he only want's to be pleaaured. Truts me I dont mind, I love sucking him off and letting himself have his way with me, but thats it... I wanna get off too... am I just beng crazy or is that what I should expect... Really looking for some advise or ...

11 response(s), 19 votes
sail_me 62 M
1  question
swollowing - 3/8/2011

I have always wanted someone to shoot his load down my throat and have never allowed it, why, I'm afraid of HIV. Can anyone explain to me medically, can you get HIV from a load in your mouth or stomach, stomach all the acids I think might kill it I don't know. If you hold and spit can you get anything around your cums? Would love to know because I am still waiting to do my first real sexually ...

5 response(s), 19 votes
anal_virgin69 32 M
5  questions
Any tips? - 3/4/2011

Hi guys,

Ok , i've been talking to this guy for a while and everytime we get together, we get naked and start to get our buisness on, but once he get ready to fuck me, he stops and just asks if i'll suck his cock instead... Now don't get me wrong, I love taking his load in my mouth, but I want him to fuck me and then cum in me soooooooooooooooo bad. Any clue why he wont? Should I end it ...

7 response(s), 20 votes
meccum 37 M
1  question
modelling? - 2/27/2011

Guys, I need some advice. Want to try myself as a model. What to do? Any sugestions?

13 response(s), 10 votes
freshmeattreat 65 M
1  question
feeling "guilty" after sex.... - 2/27/2011

I am a definate confirmed bottom that craves being fucked and loves the feeling of a nice , hard , throbbing cock being pushed into me and giving me a serious fucking ....my problem is that I often feel guilty or sometimes even such a slut for craving cock.....does anyone feel the same or have any advise to help me get over this issue and let me just enjoy the feelings of giving out a hot piece ...

7 response(s), 24 votes
okayokay 57 M
8  questions
What mirror?? - 2/15/2011

Well, enough with all the useless questions. What i want to know is, how do Vampires shave if they cant look at a mirror.

4 response(s), 12 votes
okayokay 57 M
8  questions
What about chairs? - 2/15/2011

Okay then, i got a couple answers i am satisfied with about the Vampires. Here is another one that really bothers me, What would chairs look like if our knees bent backwards like a bird????

2 response(s), 15 votes
HoboSB 65 M
1  question
About gay men brothels - 2/14/2011

Does Anybody knows the countries where the gay brothels are permited (besides US)?

5 response(s), 12 votes
gwapa4321 59 M
1  question
ROMANCE - 2/11/2011

TO BE A PARTNER FOR ROMANCE, WHY DO SOME GUYS DO NOT COME TO ME IN PERSON.....

4 response(s), 11 votes
READY_FOR_ACTION 29 M
2  questions
Receiving HEAD - 2/4/2011

This question is for those who love to receive head or the TOPS out there who find a blowjob to be a necessary part in fulfilling their task. Share some tips of what turns you on. What part of your cock do you like to be payed the most attention...? Is it your cock or would you prefer to have your balls sucked on by a warm, wattery mouth...? Any specific positions you enjoy being sucked..?

6 response(s), 22 votes
sparky696969 63 M
81  questions
one to STAY AWAY FROM ! - 1/24/2011

Take my advice and STAY AWAY FROM DANIELNP93 He makes it all sound so good but when it comes time to set a date and time, he just plays with you. It will be one excuse after another I know I just went through it with him on MANHUNT, where he was listed as DANNYBOY18. I know it is the very same guy because he said the same thing, young black man looking for older white guy. He had me on the ...

5 response(s), 22 votes
makeoutman2000 49 M
2  questions
Don't most guys read the profile before contacting someone? - 1/22/2011

I have noticed that I get alot of contacts from guys that don't match what I've said that I'm looking for, in my profile. I know that, as a standard member, I cannot look at profiles, unless I use some of my points. I can also email someone by using more points. I know points are hard to come by, so I hate wasting mine if I don't think I would be a good fit with someone. Wouldn't you look at a ...

11 response(s), 27 votes
blueridgebuck 85 M
1  question
hookups - 1/20/2011

Chat with guys in chat rooms, but don't seem to have any luck with hooking up with anyone in real life. Met a couple of them and talked..and never hear from them. why don't guys wish to meet in person in real life? Or is it mostly hotair and a bunch of bull. thanks.

2 response(s), 7 votes
bidonald2 68 M
2  questions
What am I - 1/15/2011

I have had 3 experiences with men (no anal, just sucking) and have found it exciting, and very enjoyable. When I masturbate I envision a man's cock, or I look at photos of naked men. I am married, but do not enjoy sex with my wife, and do get bored. I realize that titles are not important but would like to know if I am a bisexual, or am I really gay?

5 response(s), 19 votes
sexybutch73 43 M
1  question
Do you like it bare back or with rubbers ? - 1/13/2011

I really prefer it being bareback , love to feel the real thing not a damn rubber, just gotta be cautious nowadays though . Whats your thoughts ?

16 response(s), 31 votes
HornyFemBottom 36 M
1  question
Question for TOP men - 1/2/2011

Do you like my ass? =P

1 response(s), 23 votes
bi4us2njoy 59 M
2  questions
does this work - 12/21/2010

I am new to this site, been here about 1 week now. My question is does this site work and have you had success finding what you want here? I'm looking for a nice guy to be friends with along with the added benefits of sexual pleasures.

7 response(s), 15 votes