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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Gay Love.
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newly_legal2 33 M
2  questions
what does an 18 year old do when he's tried all the alternatives already at his disposal? - 12/12/2009

another question for another day, I appreciate all the feed-back for the other days questions, unfortunately there is an issue... I live in a region were homosexuality is frowned upon, I have already tried older lovers (they were amazing, but they were all already tied down to others) and I'm not specifically looking for the "One" per chance, that's just a bonus if I can. However that's not the ...

5 response(s), 29 votes
Danz01 57 M
1  question
Downloading pics - 12/12/2009

I know that this may be a stupid question but how does one down load photos from an iphone so that it can be used for posting? I am not very knowledgable about computer stuff and just recently got the phone. Thanks for any help.

2 response(s), 9 votes
anvil10292 56 M
1  question
shocked! - 12/11/2009

met aguy, we hit it off. After an hour or so of touching, stroking, etc, I went to blow him. As I do, i am getting more and more excited. As he cums, I start cumming to, long , hard , intense waves. He never touched me, and neither did I. It was if it was spontaneous. Any thoughts?

3 response(s), 13 votes
newly_legal2 33 M
2  questions
What to do when you've hit a dead end??? - 12/10/2009

I'm completely void of a relationship, love, and well of course Sex. I joined this site hoping to find the one, but I have yet to find such. My question, WHAT DO I DO NOW? and why does noone here find me attractive (other then those old enough to be my father...)???

5 response(s), 16 votes
MonkeyBottom 55 M
1  question
Question for Tops . . . when a bottom says he likes you to take charge... - 12/10/2009

After a few e-mails have been exchanged via OP and the e-mails have turned sexual . . . and I say, "I want my man to be in charge . . . not like John Wayne macho, but I mean that I am there to please . . . anything you want . . . your choice . . . it's your show . . . you will be in charge." What do you think of this? How do you take this? Is this too much pressure?

I should mention ...

3 response(s), 12 votes
CUMPLAY2DAY 66 M
2  questions
1st time orgasm! - 12/6/2009

Well not 1st time, I have actually cum loads, but never before like the other night, I met a guy with a nice cock, that was slightly curved upwards, thought nothing of it, until he started to fuck me, felt fantastic, I felt sensations that i had never had b4, He fucked me doggy style for about 5 mins, well for the first time ever I shot my load while being fucked up the arse.I have cum during ...

8 response(s), 24 votes
mikeeboy2 57 M
2  questions
need advice - 12/5/2009

how do you tell you you are gay?

6 response(s), 6 votes
phukmeagain 61 M
5  questions
Young punks theft - 12/5/2009

Has anyone copied your pix for their own. Used this site for tricks, pretended to be an adult when they are under age? I have caught some young punks doing this. Whenever you e-mail someone and they say there 40 or 50 and they done know anything about oral sex it's usually a young punk messing around. How about other ways to look out for these preteens? Anyone know?

1 response(s), 12 votes
postalman50 57 M
1  question
How to meet people??? - 12/5/2009

I'm totally new at this bisexual cravings but i'm for real....i want to do it but i can't seem to meet anyone....i tried being a silver member and a gold member but no one wants to give a newbie a chance and no one seems to want to teach a newbie every thing there is to learn about man to man sex..... I'm practitively dying to get it on man to man.....i'll be the best student in the world...just ...

5 response(s), 10 votes
bottomup79 38 M
1  question
WHERE'S A GOOD PLACE - 12/3/2009

WHERE IS A GOOD PLACE TO MEET EUGENE OREGON MEN CAUSE I DON'T KNOW

3 response(s), 22 votes
friendsand1 71 M
3  questions
Why don't some men kiss? - 12/1/2009

Personally, kissing is one of my favorite things to do. Nothing else gets me hard as fast as kissing does. And yet, so many men don't like to kiss. Why is that? Would especially like to hear from guys that don't like to kiss.

8 response(s), 21 votes
funseeker544 62 M
2  questions
Meeting someone new.... - 11/30/2009

When meeting someone for the first time, how do you greet them? What do you do first? Handshake, hug, kiss ? Example: You meet someone here on OUtpersonals. You talk back and forth and finally decide to meet. You have him come over to your place and there he is at the front door. You invite him in and What next! Hopefully, you know where it's going to leed, but how to get started is my ...

5 response(s), 17 votes
bandboy18 34 M
10  questions
good or bad - 11/28/2009

is a bad boy a good thing?

9 response(s), 31 votes
bandboy18 34 M
10  questions
numbers - 11/28/2009

what do you consider to many guys

8 response(s), 29 votes
bandboy18 34 M
10  questions
who knows - 11/28/2009

what is the best part about sex

8 response(s), 23 votes
bandboy18 34 M
10  questions
gay or bi - 11/28/2009

how do you know

7 response(s), 24 votes
bandboy18 34 M
10  questions
why - 11/28/2009

why are some guys hoes

3 response(s), 23 votes
bandboy18 34 M
10  questions
anything - 11/28/2009

should you have fun with tons of guys?

5 response(s), 21 votes
bandboy18 34 M
10  questions
how - 11/28/2009

how can you keep your man lol

4 response(s), 22 votes
bandboy18 34 M
10  questions
size - 11/28/2009

how big should you go for your first time

8 response(s), 25 votes
bandboy18 34 M
10  questions
Anal - 11/28/2009

how do you tell someone you cant have sex with them because they are to small

7 response(s), 21 votes
bandboy18 34 M
10  questions
what do you do when - 11/28/2009

what do you do when you want to have sex with a guy but you want to be top?

8 response(s), 18 votes
firsttimeneeded 68 M
1  question
anal sex - 11/28/2009

I have met a guy and he has tried to give me anal but I cannot relax enough for him to enter me I clean myself first and i so want him to have my virgin ass

10 response(s), 19 votes
lukelove2godown 41 M
4  questions
how do you handle a dirty ass? - 11/21/2009

I had a friend over the other day, we play maybe once a year, and he just started to get into ass play and while I was playing with his I got shit on my thumb and the dildo I was using on him. The smell almost made me puke. I didn't want to say anything but god I swear I smelled it for hours after he left. Is there a easier way to ask or inform besides dude wash your ass?

11 response(s), 17 votes
laydeeginga08 40 T
1  question
Just Moved to the Stroudsburg Area...... - 11/20/2009

I just moved to the stroudsburg area and I am looking for places to go to meet other males....I am 27yrs old and I am also new to the whole male to male action...I am in need to find other males who are interested in cross-dressing, TV's, or just want to chill... Any solutions???

0 response(s), 12 votes
john35895911 29 M
1  question
First time - 11/19/2009

Im ready for my first time with a guy. Wanted to know if there is anything that i should do before i go get some dick in me? Will it hurt and how bad? does size realy matter?

14 response(s), 28 votes
jacknsuckbud 47 M
1  question
hook-ups - 11/19/2009

What is the best way to meet guys for some one on one action? I am straight looking bi looking for some discrete hook-ups. TIA for your answer.

1 response(s), 14 votes
ANALAL101 55 M
4  questions
help with E-maol - 11/18/2009

I am not able to send any E-Mail. I thought standard members were allowed to send E- mails. Maybe I am just stupid, But this is really Anal if your un able to contact anyone.

8 response(s), 13 votes
hanger7 78 M
3  questions
the word "new" at OP. - 11/15/2009

i noticed on my "new matches" as well as "new members" pages that about 2/3rds of the profiles say "within the last three months" or, "more than three months" since last log-in.

these are not new members if they haven't logged in for more than three months.

so, what does OP mean by the word "new"?

maybe it's due to my location. does anybody have this where you are?

4 response(s), 15 votes
Sep4622 71 M
1  question
Oral Sex Newby-Safety Question - 11/12/2009

It appears that no one uses condoms when performing oral sex. It also seems to be common (I say common but have only had two experiences) go swallow the cum. I have done some research and am finding conflicting information as to the safety of this-older articles saying infection is a given and newer articles saying no problem with infection. In laymen's terms, how much protection should be ...

3 response(s), 20 votes